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The Queen City awaits! As one of the major cities in North Carolina you’re not short of things to see and do. Charlotte doesn’t really have a gayborhood but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t have a great gay community. You’ll find plenty of attractions (and attractive men) to keep you occupied. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our Charlotte top tips and you’ll be getting laid in no time!

Culture and Cruising!

For a date with a difference check out The Bechtler Museum of Modern Art at 420 South Tryon Street. With a great collection of modern art pieces and special exhibits, there’s always new things to see. Make it an all-day occasion at their monthly Bechtler By Night event, which mixes art viewings with entertainment and more importantly, a fully-stocked bar! NASCAR nuts simply must visit the NASCAR Hall of Fame at 400 E M.L.K Jr Blvd. Get those engines revving and check out the history of NASCAR, their drivers and their cars. You’ll be popping that hood before you know it!

Dirty Weekend!

Like the sound of a staycation? Then you NEED to book a room at The Morehead Inn at 1122 E Morehead St. This gay-friendly inn will be perfect for a romantic-but-naughty weekend retreat! Stroll through their fabulous gardens before indulging in award-winning food. Ask for The Lexington Room and enjoy a secluded suite with fantastic views and more importantly, a luxurious king-size bed providing plenty of room for getting down and dirty!

Take It Off!

For that epic eye candy, we’ve got two of the BEST bars in Charlotte. Start your night off at The Woodshed Bar at 4000 Queen City Dr. It may not look like much but head down on Deep Throat Thursdays and you’ll walk into their Underwear Night! Strip off, cruise those Calvins and check out the bulge underneath! Then it’s show time at Chasers, at 3217 The Plaza. Charlotte’s all-male exotic dance club just screams hook-up hotspot! Go-go dancers, drag shows and some of the best drink specials in town! You’ll be leaving satisfied and not alone!
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