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Cincinnati is the best city for real gay chat

Cincinnati, OH
As gay scenes go, Cincinnati has an awesome one! It’s not named “Queen City of the West” for no reason. You’ve got history, art, restaurants, music and so much more to explore and meet new people at. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and blind dates with guys that don’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and the worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Here are some of our top picks for places to take your man... before you take him home!

Contemporary Canoodling

For the arts and leisure portion of the date, your choice has to be The Contemporary Arts Center. Find it at 44 E 6th Street and while away the hours browsing the special exhibits, or work up a lunchtime sweat with The Art of Yoga and see how flexible that date of yours really is. September brings Raquel Andre and her Collection of Lovers exhibit. Browse the intimate portraits of couples throughout the world and get to making your own collection of lovers.

Take It Off!

A date that includes spending an obscene amount of time staring at naked men? Yes please! Try something different and head over to Oxford Community Arts Center at 10 S College Avenue for one of their life drawing group sessions. Trace those firm lines with 100% attention and memorize every inch. When you’re done, head on home and have a little one-on-one session yourselves. Choose who the model will be, or strip off together and decide later!

Drink Up and Dance On!

Martinis and jukeboxes, oh heyyyyyyy. Below Zero Lounge at 1122 Walnut Street is the perfect spot to knock back several drinks and chill out with that super-hot boy toy. Relax on their plush lounges, set up saucy songs on their video jukebox and indulge your wicked ways with over 100 vodkas to choose from. To keep the party going, head over to The Dock at 603 W Pete Rose Way and dance, dance, dance! Shoot some pool or hit up one of their touchscreen game stations before twerking your way to a hook-up.

Make Him Scream, Then Ice Cream!

Fall in love over fabulous ice cream. Graeter’s at 511 Walnut Street is THE best ice cream in the Midwest. Try their signature flavor, Black Raspberry Chocolate Chip, though you might find it hard to share! Why not grab a takeout pot to get creamy at home and eat that ice cream off of all the right places.
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