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Columbus’ gay scene is big, and their annual Pride festival shows just how big. There’s a vibrant and thriving gay community and the Short North and Clintonville gayborhoods have a range of lively places to hang out to meet like-minded people. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our top tips for Columbus and you’ll be catching their all-year pride vibe in no time!

Steam and Shout!

Get your sweat on at Club Columbus at 795 W. Fifth Avenue. Pump it up in their fully equipped gym and grab a spotter for those extra-tough workouts. Stretch it all out in the heated pool before exploring underneath the bubbles in the 8-man whirlpool. The sauna and steam room are the perfect places to sweat out those toxins and unwrap those towels. Join in a gang shower before feeling your way through the dark rooms in search of the perfect partner. You’ll be making friends in no time in the public chill lounge, and you’re guaranteed to make more than friends too!

For the Love of Pizza

We’ve got some top picks for you for the best eats in Columbus. Head over to Flatiron Bar and Diner at 129 E Nationwide Blvd. for some Cajun and Creole delights. The Creole Jambalaya will get your juices flowing and your mouth watering, or go for the Sirloin Steak Sandwich with chimichurri sauce for that extra kick. Grab some pink lemonade for the queen in you to complete her tasty lunchtime meal. When it’s time for pizza, the only choice is Mikey’s Late Night Slice. They’ve got more than one location in Columbus, but we love the Short North shop at 1030 N High Street. Whatever you can dream of on a pizza, they’ll probably have it, with seasonal specials as well! They’re a great supporter of Columbus Pride, and when you throw pizza into the mix, it’s a winning combination.

Dancing Queens!

Get those dancing shoes on and grab a partner cuz we’ve got a good night planned for you! Head over to Axis Nightclub at 775 N High St where you’ll find techno heaven. House music will get those feet moving and the dim lighting is perfect to explore your partner’s hidden places. Catch one of their cabarets featuring an all-male lineup or head to one of their VIP rooms for a special night. Regular drag acts and drink deals will keep you coming back for more!
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