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Dallas is the best city for real gay chat

Dallas, TX
Welcome to Texas’ biggest gay community! Home to the mega-church of LGBTQ, The Cathedral of Hope, Dallas is perhaps THE prime location in the US to meet likeminded people. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and blind dates with guys that don’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and the worrying about planning a truly awesome date. So, take a look at our top picks and get out there and lasso yourself a cowboy.

Get Your Rainbows Out

Get those rainbow colors on because September means Dallas Pride. Head over to the hub at Reverchon Park where you can enjoy a full day of festival fun. There’ll be music, food stalls and even pet adoption - and we all know how handy a puppy can be when it comes to meeting your dream guy! It wouldn’t be Pride without a parade, so on Day 2 head on over to Wycliff Avenue, get those boots on and march! Celebrate freedom in all your rainbow splendor and grab a number or two from the cute guys marching with you, or invite them to one of the fabulous After Parties that are sure to be happening all over the city.

Something Steamy

Get clean while getting downright dirty at The Club Dallas Bathhouse in Oaklawn. You’ll definitely be getting lucky at Dallas’s premiere gay hookup hotspot. Work up a sweat in their weight room and show off those muscles, before stripping off to get saucy in the sauna or steamy in the steam room. Work on that tan on their sundeck and relax after your “workout” with a Sunday BBQ by the outdoor pool. You’ll find plenty of activities and hot guys to get it on with.

Dinner and Drinks

It may not be dinner but an oh-so-popular Oaklawn spot is Lucky’s Café. Perfect for that morning-after brunch, enjoy delectable pancakes and indulge in a few too many Bloody Marys to really get your juices flowing. After all, the clue is in the name: you just might get lucky. For another popular Oaklawn spot for that dinner and drinks combo, head over to Havana Lounge. Get spicy with some Cuban flavor and hit the dance floor to bump and grind with the rest. From Hip Hop to Latin Music nights, you’ll love the atmosphere. Dress to impress and you definitely won’t be leaving alone.
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