Frequently Asked Questions - Sending & Receiving Messages

Once you enter the Live Connector, our prompts will guide you through the simple process of recording your name and greeting for the guys to hear. Remember to speak clearly, directly into the phone and avoid loud areas or loud music.

Your greeting is what you record in the Live Connector for the guys who are online to hear right now. Your mailbox ad plays 24/7 for guys to hear and then leave messages for you. The Live Connector is for when you want some hot talk right now, while mailboxes provide a fun back and forth flirt, especially if you’re looking for something really specific.

What would you say to that handsome man that cruises you as you’re walking down the street? Something hot and inviting, or something playful and coy? Your greeting should say what you want to give for a first impression. Keep in mind it should be easy to understand you so avoid loud noises or music when recording it. You’ll have a much hotter experience if the guys can hear and understand what you’re saying!

Speak clearly, give lots of detail about what you’re looking for and above all else, be yourself! Make sure you listen to it afterwards to make sure it recorded properly (you can always re-do it). You may want to write out what you want to record first and practice saying it.

If you hear from a man who just isn’t your type, simply delete the message and move on. If he is persistent and keeps messaging you, you can block the caller from sending you messages by pressing 7, when the system prompts you. If you think the guy is doing something illegal, or is underage, you can also press 7 again, after blocking him, in order to flag him to our customer service department for investigation.

Send them a message back! You can do this back-and-forth as many times as you like until you decide you are ready to take it further. Interactive Male's best feature is that you decide when you're ready to proceed. We keep your personal information private at all times so you can give it out when you’re ready.

We want everyone to have an enjoyable, satisfying experience using our system. We will not tolerate:

• Any discrimination based on age, gender or race
• Any references to illegal activity
• Threats of violence or harm

Having a Mailbox means you are on the system 24/7 for guys to hear your ad and leave you messages in response. It will do the work for you while you’re at work or asleep. They are free to set up and we have 5 categories to choose from, so the question really is “Why wouldn’t you set one up?”