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Ahhh, Fresno. Small town vibes with big city feels. This is the town where Meet in the Middle took place – a historic march for gay rights. It’s embraced the gayness and is now on track to becoming a gay hotspot between LA and San Fran with great downtown hangouts for the LGBT community. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Behold our Fresno top tips that’ll get you a Fres-YES in no time!

Nature Calls

Take a step back in time and experience Rome in your own backyard (or rather, someone else’s!) by heading to the Forestiere Underground Gardens. Designed and built by one man, the old Roman architecture and catacombs will make you feel like you are lost in another world. Subterranean rooms, courtyards and passageways intertwine beneath your feet, and the underground trees, vines and shrubs contribute to a truly special atmosphere. Once you’ve finished at Forestiere, head over to Woodward Park and visit the Shinzen Friendship Garden. Find yourself in Japan and take a stroll hand in hand through the seasons. The romantic Japanese tone, water features and classic teahouse will ensure you leave with more than friendship.

Art and Appetizers

For good eats and good music look no further than Starving Artist Bistro at 9447 N. Fort Washington. Grab a bite to eat from their fantastic menu while listening to local musicians do their thing. The relaxed environment will put even the most nervous daters at ease, and their menu is packed with great choices, reflecting the artists they have on stage. We recommend the Short Rib followed by the Lava Cake for dessert! For fine dining, you have to try Fleming’s Prime Steakhouse and Wine Bar at 639 East Shaw Ave. Mouth-watering steaks cooked to perfection are just the ticket to please that hungry mouth of yours. Their award-winning wine selection has something for everyone with over 80 labels on offer, and they are all available by the glass. So try as many as you like, and you’ll be leaving very happy indeed.

Bar Hop

We’ve got the two best bars in Fresno for your late-night antics. You need to start at The Red Lantern at 4618 E Belmont Ave. Fresno’s oldest gay bar has been around since the 70’s, and whether you’re looking for bears or queens, they all come here. When it’s time to dance, head over to FAB at 716 E Olive Ave. Karaoke, drag shows and DJs with great tunes mean a fabulous night awaits!
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