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Grand Rapids is the best city for real gay chat

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You may not think it at first, but Grand Rapids has more of a gay scene than meets the eye. Downtown is the place to be, and it’s where you’ll find all the good gay hangouts. There’s always something going on and someone to do. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service, and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our top tips for Grand Rapids, and you’ll be having a grand time with that special someone.

It’s Getting Hot in Here

It’s time to get naked and steamy, and we’ve got just the place. The Diplomat Club at 2324 Division Avenue South awaits in all its bootylicious glory. Gay owned and operated, you’re definitely in the right place to meet likeminded men. Hook up or just hang out, the opportunities are endless. Heat things up in the hot tub before getting your sweat on in the sauna. Take a visit to the adult toy store before indulging in a private rub down and being indulged in the glory hole room. Rinse off in a group shower, but be sure to grab a VIP room and get downright dirty first.

Dogs for Days

For a low key lunchtime outing, try Yesterdog at 1505 Wealthy SE. Simplicity at its best, this place has the tastiest hotdogs in Grand Rapids. These great dogs are a great price, so grab as many as you can and chow down. The Cheddardog is all kinds of bad for you, but it is so damn good, it’s worth every calorie. For dinnertime eats, head over to San Chez Bistro at 38 Fulton Street West. Their Tapas are what make this place stand out, and boy, are they to die for. A wide selection means there’s something for everyone, so order a bit of everything and have a fabulous feast for two. With regular entertainment on offer, you can turn this place into a night out.

Dancing Queen

We’ve got two great places for you to get your booty wiggle on. The Apartment at 33 Sheldon Avenue has been open for over 35 years, and it’s easy to see why. Head over for Wednesday Movie Night for a more low-key evening, or swing by on the weekend for drinking and dancing with the best of ‘em. For a wild night, try Rumors Night Club at 69 Division Avenue S. There’s a different event every night, so you’ll always have a good time. Drag shows, strippers and dancing until the AM — you won’t be leaving here alone!
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