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New York is the best city for real gay chat

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It’s the city that never sleeps, and how can it when there’s always something happening? In New York, Sex and the City isn’t just a TV show, it’s an endless possibility. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and blind dates with guys that don’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and the worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Have a look at our top picks for a queer-tastic experience that will make sure you take a big juicy bite out of The Big Apple.

Fashion Heaven

Saks 5th Avenue, Barneys and who could forget, Macy’s. Shop ‘til you drop and look fabulous while you do it. With the world’s foremost fashion houses at your fingertips you’ll surely be mingling with likeminded people when browsing these rails. Grab the latest enviable clothing trend and freshen up your wardrobe for that equally fashionable date you have later. Or who knows? Your eyes may just meet your dream man over that gorgeous pair of Prada shoes.


When is there not an event going on in New York City? The delights of Fashion Week may be over but there are still plenty of things to get your gay on for. September sees RuPaul’s Drag Race hit the New York circuit, with Werq the World coming to The Town Hall and RuPaul Drag Con 2018 at the Javits Center. Mingle with queens, celebs, and a multitude of players from the gay community at what promises to be a fierce event like no other. Flirt your way through Drag Con, get those numbers and then sashay away, Darling.


Grab a bite and grab a guy at Elmo Restaurant and Lounge in Chelsea. Popular with a trendy and fashionable crowd, you might find yourself satisfying more than just your appetite. Be sure to check out their basement’s nightly entertainment — if you don’t have more important things to do, of course. To satisfy your sweet tooth, head over to Big Gay Ice Cream in the West Village. The name really speaks for itself, need we say more?


You’ve got no shortage of bars and clubs to choose from. Whether you choose a night out in Chelsea or Brooklyn there will always be somewhere for you to go. Head to 554 W 28th Street in Chelsea and you’ll discover The Eagle. You’ll be like a kid in a candy shop, spoiled for choice with a selection of delectable men. Get your leather gear on and hit the roof for a wild night of debauchery. For something more low key, head to Phoenix in the East Village. With a relaxed and trendy atmosphere, it’s the perfect place to meet new people or hang out with a new boo. Grab a beer from one of the dishy barmen and just kick back and relax.
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