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Newark is the best city for real gay chat

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As gay cities go, you’ve got a good one in Newark. Known for their Gay Pride and LGBTQ support, you’re never going to be short on things to do or places to go to meet like-minded people. Being so close to New York, you know it’s going to attract a lively and diverse crowd. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our top tips for Newark to get you schmoozing with alllll the right people.

Culture Trip

Add some culture to your dating schedule and check out Gallery Aferro at 73 Market Street. This contemporary gallery always has something going on, whether it be a new exhibit or their regular community book club. Check out their art installations and bask in creativity that aims to be accessible to everyone. Once you’re done, head over to Branch Brook Park between the Forest Hill and Roseville neighborhoods. This park is famous for its cherry blossom trees and has the largest collection in North America, so be sure to visit when they’re in season and take a romantic stroll through the pink!

Soul and Spice

We’ve got some good eats for you now! Head over to Vonda’s Kitchen at 183 – 185 West Kinney Street for the best soul food in Newark. Breakfast is served all day, so if you have a late one the night before, you and Bae will still be able to roll out of bed and head for some pancakes. We love the three-layered grilled cheese, and the chicken and waffles are to die for! For a casual evening head to Burger Walla at 47 Halsey Street. As their website says, it’s drool worthy! The Walla Lamb Burger is mouth-watering, and they do sweet potato tots!

Can You Say Burlesque?

Now it’s time to show off those moves, and we’ve got two of the best places to do just that! Rio Lounge at 618 Market St doesn’t just have yummy tapas, but a dance floor and bar to bust some serious Latin moves on. Their mix of Brazilian, Latin and American music will have you shaking your booty all night long. Our number two pick is Hell’s Kitchen Lounge at 150 Lafayette Street. Think Vegas meets an old-world drinking den. Their drinks are truly wicked, but it’s their regular burlesque shows that will have you coming back for more and more.
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