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Norfolk is the hidden gem in the state of Virginia. This city is a haven for the gay community in an otherwise conservative state not big on the notion that love is love. Granby Street is the gayborhood to visit and houses all of the hip joints that you’ll come to love! But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our top tips for Norfolk, and it’ll be smooth sailing and sailors for you!

Lifeguards On Duty

Community Beach Park at 700 East Ocean View Avenue is a great place for both cruising and schmoozing. Top up that tan and get your fill of buff bodies and lovely lifeguards. Think Baywatch à la Zac Efron. Dip your toes in the water or get naughty and go for a skinny dip with the person of your choice. Sweaty, sandy beach fun is always the way to go, so pack your swim gear, sunblock and your best pair of shades for some unfiltered and unclothed people watching.

Pump It

Onelife Fitness at 1900 Monticello Avenue is another hot cruising spot in Norfolk. Hot men getting all kinds of sweaty will get you pumped up and ready to rock. Get those muscles working on the weights or just lie back and work on your tan. Join a group class and mingle before heading to their juice bar for a healthy treat. Finish off your visit at the sauna and sweat it all out. We guarantee you’ll meet a new workout buddy here in no time.

Wine and Dine

Whether you want fine dining or low-key eating, we’ve got something for everyone. For a more laid back atmosphere, head over to No Frill Grill at 806 Spotswood Ave. The clue is in the name at this restaurant, but no frills doesn’t mean no good. Their specials are updated daily, so there’s always something new and exciting on the menu. If it’s a weight watching day, order one of their delicious salads, but if it’s time to splurge, we definitely recommend their Famous Meatloaf or Loaded Pierogies. You won’t regret it! For a date that just screams fine dining, it has to be Todd Jurich’s Bistro at 150 West Main Street. World-class wines and a mouthwatering menu await. They use locally sourced ingredients throughout their menu, and they use them well. Order the Crispy Cherry Duck, and you’ll both be ready for more.
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