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Ahhh, Philadelphia! The place where the Liberty Bell hangs resolute, the home of the signing of the Declaration of Independence, and who could forget that inspirational shot of Rocky making it to the top of the Philadelphia Museum of Arts’ steps! Even better, Philadelphia is very up and coming in the gay community, and you’ll have a ton of stuff to keep you satisfied. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our top tips and you’ll be knocking it out of the park in no time!

Philly Him Up!

For a guaranteed hook-up hotspot then you need to head over to Club Philly at 1220 Chancellor Street. Their dark play areas are the perfect naughty niches in which to play out those fantasies. Get hot and heavy out of sight in the steam room, and relax and explore in the sauna. Video lounges and communal showers make for an extremely pleasurable experience — yours and someone else’s. Our favorite part: twice a month is CumUnion, an International Sex Party! You can thank us later.

Boys and Books!

Shopping is always a good idea and we’ve got a couple of good ones for you! First, head over to Giovanni’s Room at 345 South 12th Street. Giovanni’s is a Philadelphia institution and is now the oldest gay bookstore in the country. It’s the perfect place to waste a few hours browsing the shelves for the next great gay literary work, and with regular guest speakers it’s the perfect spot for some low-key canoodling. This next one is for all the pet people out there and we just couldn’t help ourselves! Doggy Style at 1032 Pine Street sounds like a proposition to us. Pick up some cute new accessories for your furry friend and bond over chew toys with someone else who enjoys a bit of doggy style.

Eat and Be Merry!

We love brunch. Love. It. Of course we were going to include a brunch spot, and we’ve got a great one for you! Check out Sabrina’s Café at 910 Christian Street — all day brunch awaits! French toast, poached eggs, even a Vegan special are on offer, and you will not be disappointed. With a changing seasonal menu, you’ll never get bored. Our next pick is Valanni at 1229 Spruce St. With a fabulous Mediterranean-Latin fusion menu their mezze selection is to die for and you’ll be spoiled for choice. Lobster and crab mac & cheese, kobe cheesesteak sliders and spicy pulled chicken empanadas are just a few of their offerings. With ½-price cocktails during Happy Hour, you can’t go wrong!
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