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Phoenix is the best city for real gay chat

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With 325 days of sun a year, you’ll be looking super fine and ready to roll with an epic tan. You’re not limited for choice of places to go and things to do in Phoenix — a thriving gay community awaits! But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Read on for our top picks to guarantee that seriously hot hook-up!

Steam and Scream!

Group showers, saunas, jacuzzi and men only? Where is this paradise you ask?! Head over to Flex Spa at 1517 S. Black Canyon Highway for a sumptuously saucy spa. Strip off on the sun deck and tan those abs, or cruise the local talent and oil up for some slippin’-and-slidin’ fun. Whirlpool it up and get frisky under the bubbles with that not-so-special someone before heading into the porn lounge for extra-erotic foreplay. Be sure to make use of their private rooms and end your visit with an oh-so-satisfying climax.

Hola and Hula!

Turn up the heat and get ready to sweat! For THE best Mexican in the city look no further than Barrio Café at 2814 N 16th Street. Live music is on offer Thursday through Saturday so take in dinner and a show and be prepared to get spicy! A whole section of their menu is dedicated to margaritas, so you know it’s going to be a good night. Wrap your mouth around their authentic Mexican food, then be prepared to wrap your mouth around other appetizing things! For that Hawaiian touch head over to Hula’s Modern Tiki at 4700 N Central Avenue. Who doesn’t love umbrellas in their drinks? With Tiki Time Happy Hour running Monday through Friday, grab some of their signature tropical cocktails and show your hottie that you can hula those hips!

Dance and Dick’s!

For those sunshiny days an outdoor patio is a must, and Bliss/Rebar has one of the best! Throw in karaoke nights, DJ’s and the all-important happy hour and you’re sure to be heading home with a hottie. Find it at 901 N 4th St. and dance your cares away! For an evening of debauchery, Dick’s Cabaret is the ONLY choice! Do the words All Male Strip Club sound good? We think so too! Find it at 3432 E Illini St. and be ready for a wild night. All nude, all the time. Watch the show and let your imagination run wild!
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