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Portland is the best city for real gay chat

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We love Portland and Portland loves the LGBTQ community. Although there’s no dedicated gayborhoods, gay communities exist throughout the city. Plenty of places to go means there are plenty of people to meet! But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells, so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a matchmade in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our top tips for Portland, and you’ll be coming out on top!

Seas the Day!

You’ll need to head out of the city for this one, but it’s soooo worth it. Take a trip to Rooster Rock State Park, and after a half-mile hike, you’ll find paradise. And by paradise, we mean a nude beach! There are signs on the path stating that clothing is optional, and you’ll want to follow these. There’s a beach just for the gay crowd, so you’ll find lots of men to cruise and skinny dip with! Take in the scenery, get a tan and get a boy.

Wet and Wild!

Time to get slippery. For some steamy fun head over to Steam Portland at 2885 NE Sandy. This ultra-modern, ultra-clean bathhouse is the nicest in Portland. Put it all on show on their fully nude sundeck, and check out the other packages on offer. Take a dip in the hot tub and steam it up in the steam room. Warm things up by the outdoor fire pit before heading inside and making friends in the amphitheater video lounge. Visit the public sling room and get nasty, or grab a bubby and get intimate in the private sling room. With a tunnel play room and private suites on offer, the possibilities are endless!

Cricket and Cupcakes!

It’s time to satisfy your hunger and we’ve got two great picks for you to try. For a great breakfast spot head over to Cricket Café at 3159 SE Belmont St. They serve breakfast seven days a week, so no matter what morning-after delights you require, you’re all set. The Honey Cinnamon French Toast is a dream or order their Golden Goat Omelet for a unique treat. For dessert or just a daytime treat, you need to try Cupcake Jones at 307 NW 10th Ave. Boston Cream, Peanut Butter Cup, German Chocolate, Lemoncello…is your mouth watering yet?! With seasonal specials on the menu as well, these cakes are worth the calories. Every. Single. One.
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