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Out and proud is a way of life in Richmond, and it’s a great one! As the capital of the Commonwealth of Virginia, Richmond has an awesome history of fighting for LGBTQ rights, and it shows in the diverse community that calls it home. With a thriving gay scene, there’s no shortage of things going on and plenty to sink your teeth into. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service, and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now comes the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Our Richmond top tips are just waiting for you to get out there and get your queer on.

Cultural Creations

Richmond’s art scene is getting bigger and bigger, and the city embraces the creative spirit. To see a mixture of art and history, visit the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts at 200 North Boulevard. Take a date and wander through the wings checking out the Native American Art and fabulous Faberge Eggs. With special exhibitions and historical artifacts on display, it’s a great place to immerse yourself in culture for a few hours and mingle with fellow art lovers.

Stay and Play

For a night away without heading out of town, pay a visit to The Jefferson Hotel at 101 West Franklin St. This historic hotel is the height of luxury and romance, and it’s the perfect place to play and relax in equal measure! Their indoor pool is great for a bit of frisky fun, and to stretch out those muscles for your in-room work out later on. Wander through the grounds and bask in the old-world feel of the foyer. Opt for one of their Grand Premier Rooms, and enjoy opulent luxury. The king-sized bed will ensure you have the most fun possible and the best night’s sleep to rejuvenate. The staff are so friendly and accommodating of all needs, you won’t want to leave!

Dancing Queens

For a fun night out in Richmond, we’ve got some great choices for you. Godfrey’s at 308 East Grace Street is a long time staple of Richmond’s gay culture. Not just an enjoyable nighttime destination, Godfrey’s offers drag brunches and other awesome entertainment during the day. In the evening, the DJs are on fire, and drag acts are common come nightfall as well. Throw in their strong drinks, and you’ve got a winning combination. For a real dance venue, head over to Club Colors at 534 North Harrison Street. Drink specials and a dance floor big enough for all the booty shakers out there — you’ll be dancing the night away and bumping and grinding with the rest of them.
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