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San Jose is the best city for real gay chat

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You might think that being so close to San Francisco, San Jose wouldn’t have much of a gay scene. This is where we’re gonna prove you wrong! With a strong Latin influence, San Jose not only has a gay scene, it has an extremely sexy one. There are some super Mexican influences, especially on the restaurant scene, and great bars and clubs that always have something going on. But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our San Jose top picks to spice up that love life!

Turn Up the Heat!

Sweat and steam your aches away before having a workout of a different kind at The Watergarden at 1010 The Alameda. Set in their own gardens you’ll be enjoying the scenic views just as much as you’ll be enjoying the male views. Find a dark corner in the steam room and feeeeeeel your way around, or socialize in the 17-seat whirlpool before sunbathing on the outside patio. Thursday night is Latin Music Night so get sensual and salsa your way to a private room! Come with someone or come alone to meet and mingle; either way you’ll definitely be coming.

Can You Say Tequila!

We’ve got you covered for breakfast and dinner in San Jose and you’re guaranteed to satisfy those appetites. Start off your day at Crema Coffee Roasting Co. at 950 The Alameda. Grab an iced coffee and some delectable breakfast for booty call energy. You’ll love the setting and the local talent, it’s a great place to cruise your morning away. Mexican offerings and, more importantly, tequila are what you’ll find at Azteca Mexican Restaurant at 20 N Abel St. All the classic food choices will have your mouth watering, but it’s the margarita selection that really wins! Top them off with a couple of straight shots of tequila and you’ll be salsa-ing your way into the bedroom by the end of the night!

Dancing Queens!

Splash Bar Inc at 65 Post St. In Central San Jose delivers on a great night. Dance, drink and be merry and gay all night long. Make that boy swoon on 90s Night with your Running Man. With dancing and drag shows you’ll be out for the night and yes, they have a happy hour! When the lights go out, what happens on the dance floor, stays on the dance floor!
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