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St. Louis is the best city for real gay chat

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The Gateway City is calling, and it’s definitely worth a listen! Named one of the 50 Best Gay-Friendly Places to Live, you will have no shortage of areas to visit and things to do. The city is dotted with gayborhoods, so get out there and find your Bae! But let’s be honest, dating is hard. We all know it can be awkward and uncomfortable, and those blind dates with the guy who doesn’t know when to stop with the cologne are old news. But you’ve done the lonely nights and the month-long dry spells, so it’s time to get out there again. This is it. You’ve signed up for a dating service and they’ve come through with a match made in internet heaven! Now come the butterflies and worrying about planning a truly awesome date. Check out our top tips for St. Louis, and you’ll be singing a jaunty Judy Garland tune in no time.

Bask and Bathe!

Strip down to that birthday suit and get lucky at Club St. Louis at 2625 Samuel Shepard Drive. Get a radiant glow in their tanning beds, then take a dip in their outdoor pool to get those muscles warmed up, or move to their sky-lit jacuzzi to explore what’s hiding under the bubbles and really heat things up. Or get in the mood in their big-screen movie lounge, running porn all day, every day. Make new friends with a visit to the gang shower, before getting saucy in the sauna and steam room. Grab a private room to make the end of your visit as memorable as possible.

Chocolate Kisses

Chocolate is always the answer and, as an aphrodisiac, we highly recommend it! You need to try out Bailey’s Chocolate Bar at 1915 Park Ave. If the name doesn’t say it all, don’t worry, we can go on. This place is heaven. Chocolate and alcohol get married and have the most delicious babies ever! Their cocktails are all chocolate themed and to die for. The Signature cocktail is an absolute must, but we also have a gooey soft spot for the Mexican cocktail – coffee, chocolate and tequila = delicious! Pair these with the Lovers’ Plate dessert sharing platter (which includes an amazing s’mores brownie), and no wonder this place was voted Best First Date in St. Louis. Someone is getting laid after this!

Martinis and Mystery

For those late-night gatherings, we’ve got two of the best spots in St. Louis. Start out at Thaxton Speakeasy at 1009 Olive Street. This is St Louis’ only password-protected bar, and it’ll take you right back to the rip-roaring prohibition era! Get on the list and learn the password for discounted cover charge, and enjoy old world vibes and entertainment. Pssst… Enter through the alleyway (not a euphemism)! Finish the night with martinis at The Monocle at 4510 Manchester Ave. Signature martinis and drag shows guarantee a fun and eventful evening.
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