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Interactive Male Gay Chat Lines FAQ

Learn more about Interactive Male gay hotline below in our FAQ. Then buy one of our super affordable Interactive Male packages and start chatting with live gay, bi-curious and hetero?exible men.

About Interactive Male

Interactive Male is a gay men’s chat line where you can make discreet, immediate connections with thousands of local sexy gay men. There are no photos or questionnaires, so your guy-on-guy adventures stay private. Interactive Male provides a release from the mundane world into a safe playground where you can live out your most erotic fantasies. Our gay hotline is easy to use and super affordable. Get started today.

No, all the gay men on the chatline are real guys who are looking for a different way of connecting with other men - just like you.

  • Start by finding the local number for Interactive Male in your area by entering your area code in the bar on the top of this page. Then call your local number to get started! Be sure to make note of the Free Trial Code, so when you call we can give you a free trial membership.
  • First you’ll record a greeting on the Voice Personals Mailbox that will introduce you to other male callers. Don’t be shy! This is your chance to let the real you come out to men on the gay hotline. You can re-record your greeting as many times as you like. Once you save it, your greeting plays to the other men to let them know you’re on the line.
  • Next, you can listen to greetings from other callers…you can spend as long as you want. Hear someone you like? Send them a message through the Live Live Connector. If someone’s into you, they’ll message you back. It’s always up to you if you want to respond or not.
  • When you find a sexy gay man and you want to take your relationship to the next level, invite him for some man-to-man action. Your private chats stay that way. It’s just you and him and your wild and playful imaginations.

A Voice Personals Mailbox is like a personal answering machine for every member of Interactive Male. It allows gay men to leave you messages when you are not online, and allows you to review your messages whenever it's convenient for you. And should you want to get back to someone interesting, they will also have a mailbox for you to leave a message in, even if he isn't online at the time.

Your Voice Personals Mailbox is the home of your Interactive Male ad. It should contain the most detail about who you are, what you’re into, and the type of sexy gay men you are hoping to meet. Your ad will be available 24 hours a day in the category you select. More detail about yourself and what you are looking for in your gay connections will get you the best responses.

The Live Connector is for men who want to connect live, in real time. Cruise, chat and get to know someone before deciding if you want to hook up. Live Connector conversations are unmonitored and one-on-one, so you can release your inhibitions and chat about anything you like.

In the Live Connector you can start by recording a greeting that describes yourself and the kind of man you would like to meet. This greeting disappears from the Live Connector when you hang up, so you can have fun with your Live Connector greeting even if your Voice Personals Mailbox greeting is more serious.

Interactive Male was created as an alternate way for gay, bi-curious, hetero?exible and bisexual men to connect,
discretely, quickly and inexpensively. Thousands of guys from all walks of life connect on Interactive Male every day.
Interactive Male is a fun, sexy, adventurous way to meet other men in your local area. In a matter of minutes, you’ll be
connected with hot, sexy men on our gay hotline.

Our friendly Customer Service Representatives are always available to answer questions or help you with any aspect of using the service. Call them 24 hours a day, 7 days a week at 1-800-661-6168.

Free Trials

Yes. Every new caller can try our service for free. Just use the free trial bar on the top of this page to get your local calling number, and when you dial into the system our voice prompts will lead you through setting up your free trial membership. However, new free trial accounts will not be issued to a phone number that has previously been given one.

Yes, as long as that phone number has never had a free trial membership issued to it before.

NO, you can ONLY use your free trial account from the phone it was issued from. However, new free trial accounts will not be issued to a phone number that has previously been issued one.

Your free trial may not work if:

  • Someone has already used a free trial from this number before.
  • The system cannot read your phone number on call display. You can try to dial *82 to display your phone number on our system.
  • There is no time left in the membership.
  • It has been more than 7 days since your free trial was issued.

You must be calling from the phone number the free trial was originally issued. Or it may be that someone has used a free trial from this phone number before.

You should look up your local access number, and try calling us that way. In the unlikely event that we do not provide local service to your area, call our friendly, 24-hour, toll-free Customer Service at 1-800-661-6168 and they'll help you get connected.

You should try our special 30-minute membership for only $4.99 Please note that this one-time special offer is only available to credit card customers. Contact our friendly, 24-hour toll free Customer Service at 1-800-661-6168 and ask about our $4.99 special.

Sending & Receiving Messages

Once you have dialed into the system, our prompts will guide you through the simple process of setting up your voice personals mailbox and recording your ad. Remember to speak clearly and directly into the phone.

Although each is intended to help you connect with gay, bisexual, heteroflexible and bi-curious men, greetings on the Live Connector and your Voice Personals Mailbox are used in different ways.

Your Voice Personals Mailbox greeting is your identity on Interactive Male, and is available to gay hotline callers to hear 24 hours a day.

Your greeting in the Live Connector is heard only by other gay callers who are on the line. Make it short, punchy and ”in-the-moment.” Let the real you come through to talk to someone right then and there who shares your spirit of adventure. When you’re finished, your Live Connector greeting is erased, but your Voice Personals Mailbox greeting remains until you change or delete it.

This is your introduction to everyone online, so don’t be shy! Relax and take your time. The most intriguing greetings attract the most men!

  • Before you record your greeting, write out what you want to say about yourself, and about the type of guy you're looking for.
  • Be specific, and sell yourself!
  • Practice reading your greeting aloud a few times. Do you sound con?dent, approachable, friendly, sexy and open to new ideas with gay men?
  • Avoid dead air, saying “Uh” too many times, and using music.

If you hear from a man who just isn’t your type, simply delete the message and move on. He may send you another message, but that's all he can do. There is no way for him to get in touch with you outside of Interactive Male as all of your personal information is kept confidential.

If you get an unwelcome message while you’re in the Live Connector you can block the caller from sending you messages by pressing 7, when the system prompts you.

Send them a message back! You can do this back-and-forth as many times as you like until you decide you are ready to take it further, whether by arranging a meeting or by giving out your name or phone number. Interactive Male's best feature is that you decide when you're ready to proceed. We keep your personal information private at all times.

We want everyone to have an enjoyable, satisfying experience using our system. We will not tolerate:

  • any discrimination based on age, gender or race
  • any references to illegal substances

Messages are exchanged between callers using the voice personals mailbox system, and between callers on the live Connector. They can be used for introductions or to get to know someone else better. You can exchange messages many times. You can also leave them for callers on the Connector or in callers' voice personals mailbox. A connection request is a special type of message inviting a caller to join you in a private live conversation on the Connector.

There are all kinds of men including gay, str8, heteroflexible and bisexual men looking for a safe place to live out their erotic fantasies. While some are looking for a relationship, most are looking for a more casual, spontaneous and adventurous experience, and they are willing to try something different in order to meet new gay men.

Voice Personals Mailboxes is your most powerful tool for connecting with like-minded gay guys. The greeting you record for your Voice Personals Mailbox is your 24-hour a day presence on the Interactive Male gay hotline. Placing your greeting in a category guarantees that the right guys looking for the same kind of experience as you are will hear your greeting. Your Voice Personals Mailbox is how interested guys will get back to you. If you do not wish to run a greeting, you can designate your box as being "For Responses Only". This way, when you reply to an ad you like, that person will have a place to send you a message


Yes, a paid membership may be used from any touch tone phone.

It usually takes about 5 to 10 minutes to set up a new membership. We will need your name, address and method of payment.

Your membership number gives you access to Interactive Male, and your pass code is like your bank PIN number. To protect yourself and your mailbox from fraudulent use, call our friendly, 24-hour Customer Service at 1-800-661-6168 if you lose your numbers. For your security, you will be asked to verify your personal information. Remember your membership number is different from your mailbox number. Call Customer Service if you have any other questions about memberships, numbers, or Voice Personals Mailboxes.

You should never share your membership number or pass code with anyone on line, especially if they claim to be an employee or part of a promotion! Customer service will only ask you to quote your numbers if you have called us with a problem or question. Remember that your membership number and pass code is what keeps track of your balance, so you never want to give this information out to anyone.

The system will inform you when time is being deducted from your membership. In the voice personals mailbox system it is free to listen to ads, and time is deducted from your membership when you reply to ads or listen to the responses in your voice personals mailbox.

In the Live Connector, time is deducted from your membership once you have recorded your greeting and are listening to other greetings of guys using the Connector. Time is deducted from your membership on a per-minute basis. Memberships that are unused for a period of 30 days will be charged a 10-minute maintenance fee. Additionally, memberships that remain unused for a period of 3 months will be deactivated without refund.

The system will inform you of your membership balance when you log on. You will be given the option to purchase more time when your balance is less than 20 minutes. The system will also warn you when your membership balance reaches two minutes.

Guys, free trial memberships are a special introductory offer to first-time users only, but when you sign up for a regular membership we'll be happy to sell you your first package for half-price. This allows you to continue using the same account and voice personals mailbox you set up for your free trial. Call our friendly 24-hour toll-free Customer Service at 1-800-661-6168 to find out more about this great deal.


(For our 900 customers) Your telephone company handles the billings for the 900 number you have called. Charges will appear in a separate section of your regular phone bill as UCI.

US customers can pay by Western Union. Canadian customers can pay by Western Union. We do not accept payments by mail. Find out how to use Western Union on our Payment Methods page.

 All charges are discreetly billed as TELMSGSER 877-214-2938.

Anytime you purchase online with us, a confirmation screen will appear with the details of your transaction. As well, we will send an email to your email address with the transaction details. This email is your "electronic receipt." You can print this email or confirmation screen for your records. If you are a new member signing up online, you will receive two email messages from us. The first message will contain your membership information for your records, and the second message will contain your transaction details.

Call the system to find out about our current promotions.

Interactive Male customers may pay by Credit Card, PayPal, Western Union or by billing your home phone through a 1-900 number (Available in selected locations in Canada only).

For Credit Card payments we accept Visa, MasterCard, Amex, and Discover. The Discover Credit Card is only accepted in the U.S.

To pay with PayPal you'll need to set up a PayPal account first, using your bank account or credit card information.

Charges will not appear on your phone bill unless you call using one of our 1-900 numbers. However, if you call one of our local access numbers from outside its local calling area, long distance charges may apply.


Since 1990 we have been approved by the top banks in North America to provide secure on line real-time credit card processing for our members. All credit cards presented are securely directed to the financial institution that issued the credit card. You are notified of approval or decline while on the phone with our friendly 24-hour toll-free customer service.

  • We will not sell, rent or divulge any personal information about you or this transaction to any 3rd party.
  • Once your account is set up we will not be in communication with you unless you contact us. However, we may need to contact you to verify your account information or to operate our brands more effectively.
  • When you register to use any of our brand services you will be asked for some general identifying information that will enable us to provide you with this individualized service. We will only use this information in the course of providing our service to you.
  • See our Privacy Policy for more information.

We ask for your SSN for your protection. We want to ensure that the charges are going to the right person and that no one else is using your credit card or bank account.

On-line Web Account

To access your Interactive Male account on-line you must first create a Web Account.

Members that have purchased packages on-line can login here with the information that was sent in the “Sign Up Confirmation” email.

Members that purchased their packages over the phone must sign-up for an on-line Web Account. Signing up is free and gives you access to exclusive on-line content, deals and promotions. You will need to have your Area Code, Membership Number and Passcode handy and provide us with a valid email address to associate with your account. Enter a password that is unique and something that you can easily remember.

Once you have completed this sign-up process you will receive a confirmation email. Click on the link to verify your account and enter your email and password to sign in.

First check your Junk E-mail folder for the “forgot password” email. If the email is not there, try adding to your email contacts and generate a new request for forgot password.

Your Web Account is associated to the email that you have provided when you signed up. Use this email to request a “forgot password” email. Make sure that the email you have entered when you signed up/registered is the same as the email entered when requesting a new password. Keep in mind, the email is case-sensitive

  • Check your Junk E-mail folder for the “purchase confirmation” email.
  • You can also confirm your purchase on the “View Order History” in the online members section of your Web Account.
  • You can call our call center at 1-800-661-6168 to verify that your purchase went through and minutes had been added to your account.

The link in the email to validate the creation of your Web Account is only valid for 24 hours. You will need to request a new Web Account confirmation link if you get an error message telling you that you do not have an account. This error message refers to your on-line Web Account.

To request for a new confirmation email enter your email and password here. Activate your Web Account at once by clicking on the confirmation link in the email.

The account in this message refers to the on-line Web Account.

  • If you are new to Interactive Male and have never purchased a package you first need to buy a package on-line. In the confirmation email you get, click on the link to confirm the creation of your on-line Web Account and enter your email and password.
  • If you are new to the website, never signed in on-line but have an existing Phone Account with Interactive Male you need to create an on-line Web Account first. Have your Area Code, Membership Number and Passcode handy and provide us with a valid email address to associate with your account. Enter a password that is unique and something that you can easily remember. Once you have completed this sign-up process you will receive a confirmation email. Click on the link to verify your account and enter your email and password to sign in.
  • If you have accessed your account on-line before and can’t do so now, please contact us with a detailed account of what happened and we will get back to you ASAP.